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How to Fight Without Fear

by Jesse Enkamp

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Are you scared of sparring?                                                                                                                                                                                

You’re not alone…

As someone who holds a black belt in Karate, here’s a very common question that I get asked by other Karatekas:

“Jesse-san, how can I overcome my fear of fighting?”

Here, I will share my simple yet effective approach to sparring in Karate which can easily be applied to other martial arts disciplines too!

But first, understand this:

Fear is a liar.

If you think you must overcome fear before you can fight, you are mistaken. The only way to overcome fear is by fighting.

When you face your fear, again and again, you befriend it. You remove its scary mask.

The greatest fighters don’t fight without fear. They fight DESPITE the fear!

Understand that fear never really goes away.

It just stops affecting you.


Fear stands for False Evidence Appearing Real



In order to reach this stage of “fear-friendliness”, you need a practical approach to acquaint yourself with fear.

You wouldn’t throw a child in deep water before first dry swimming on land, and then in shallow water with floating pads, right?

Sadly, I see Karate instructors throwing their students into full sparring without any progressive build-up at all.

It breaks my heart.

Your first impression of sparring should NEVER be chaos and panic.

It should be a safe and fun learning experience for you.


Jesse’s 3 Baby-Steps of Kumite


This is my step-by-step way of introducing ‘jiyu kumite’ (free sparring).

The idea is to reduce the unpredictable and scary nature of fighting by imposing 3 rules that can be applied to the practice of Karate and also other types of martial arts.


Reduce the number of techniques and/or targets


The first step is to reduce the number of allowed techniques and/or targets. By eliminating elements of uncertainty like this, we can regulate our feelings towards kumite.

  • For example, only allow straight punches (technique) to the stomach (target).
  • Or, only allow round kicks (technique) to the body (target) and straight punches (technique) to the face (target).

Gradually increase the options of techniques and targets.


Use extra protection


By using extra padding, you will have less fear to fight

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During sparring, it’ s more than OK to use extra protection such as foam helmet, boxing gloves, knee/elbow pads etc.

The more padding, the more security, the less fear. You need to be able to receive blows from your opponent, in order to rewire your brain’s instinctive flight-fight-or-freeze response.

Of course, this can backfire. Some people automatically hit harder when they are wearing protection.

(That’s why the next rule is important.)

Gradually, you can remove protectors one by one.


3. Reduce the speed.


Lastly, all moves must be done in slow motion.

As the saying goes; “speed kills”.

When you fight in slow motion, you develop the ability to see attacks before they reach you.

This changes your mindset from reactive to active, since you’re removing an element of surprise.

Gradually increase the speed when you get more comfortable.


That’s it!

If you follow the above baby-steps I shared, you’ll get accustomed to free sparring (‘jiyu kumite’) in a safe and fun way.

The final piece of the puzzle is to adjust your mindset.

Remember that the only thing you have to fear is fear itself…

Good luck! 


*The original version of this article was published on KarateByJesse.com

Be sure to read our fun & inspiring interview with Jesse and check out BookMartialArts.com’s vast selection of martial arts training camps located all over the globe!

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